So Contempt

No matter what you do. Some actions in your life will be reason for someone don't like you. That actions can come from close friends, family, lovers, girlfriends or boyfriends. I consider that the fault is on your personality. That one sometimes simple can not be mixed with the personality of other persons. It's complicated, because we live in a world of billions of people. Each one is a subjective person and have their values, principles, faith, culture and other things. 

Everything starts in a fault of knowledge, but with time you start knowing that person.With that opinions start to be build and what can be fruitful is good. What is a reason for you not like in the other person can be the contrary. 

This is the way of building relationships. You meet a person, and only with time you will know what kind of person he/she is. But is unfair, because if someone gives to the trouble to meet you and let you know that you meet him is only a balance. 

No one is perfect. Everyone have a badge, a past. A period in life that they for sure committed a lot of mistakes and they will learn with them or they simple discovery that they have problems that never, ever, can be solved. 

That persons live in a difficult way. Because or the society don't understand them or in terms more personal they always have difficulties to express with other persons what they simple don't understand in them. 

 

 

In the end what I am trying to write/say it's that you can have a relationship very deep with someone. But if in the end the same don't result, the conclusion can be a antipathy so big that the person simple become a stranger. Like someone you never meet...

You can still have feelings for them, but if the person feels that you hurt here, you became a stranger. Lost in translation. You seek a solution for the mistake that you have done. You want that everything have a solution. That the person don't be another one, because the impression that you have is not simple a bound that it was intimate. It was more, much more. 

In the time that you spend with that person you found out that the connection it was not only in feelings, but also a admiration about that person, The way that she have live, the way that she thinks, the way that she show herself to world. The way that persons like them. In the end the motor that she is/was in yourself.

Anyway, what is the conclusion of this text is that when you have a more intimacy relationship with someone. If the same don't result. I don't understand why people behave in way of ignoring what they pass together. Because we live in a world and in a moment that the knowledge shows that in a world of billions of people, few are the ones that you really like and like us. 

However, words and habits maybe can not change. We don't have need to have contempt in this time. Time is so precious, that is the only care about the ones that really love us.